{"id":133989,"date":"2019-04-18T16:06:51","date_gmt":"2019-04-18T16:06:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sftarticles.wpenginepowered.com\/en\/?p=133989"},"modified":"2025-07-01T22:04:59","modified_gmt":"2025-07-02T05:04:59","slug":"break-social-media-addiction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cms-articles.softonic.io\/en\/break-social-media-addiction\/","title":{"rendered":"How do I break my social media addiction?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-135784\" src=\"https:\/\/articles-img.sftcdn.net\/sft\/articles\/auto-mapping-folder\/sites\/3\/2021\/04\/700_smartphone_addict_osovpe.jpg\" alt=\"Smartphone addict\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Social media connects us to new people and ideas \u2014 for better or worse. It\u2019s also <strong>a massive time suck<\/strong> that can wipe out a whole day and get in the way of accomplishing goals.<\/p>\n<p>The word &#8220;addiction&#8221; brings to mind drugs and alcohol. It might seem too strong a word to apply to something like social media, right?<\/p>\n<p>Well, not exactly. Though social media addiction has yet to secure an official spot in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychiatry.org\/psychiatrists\/practice\/dsm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">DSM<\/a>, it&#8217;s already become quite<strong> prevalent in the U.S. and Europe.<\/strong> It is\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC3480687\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">affecting up to 8.2%<\/a> of the general population.<\/p>\n<p>How often are you on track, knocking tasks off your to-do list when a friend request or Instagram comment<strong> derails your progress<\/strong>? One second you\u2019re typing up an email, and the next, you\u2019re deep into some acquaintance&#8217;s 2016 vacation pics.<\/p>\n<p>All of us are susceptible to succumbing to these distractions, but there are some things you can do to fight full-blown social media addiction.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some tips you can use to regain control:<\/p>\n<h3>Learn why you\u2019re addicted to social media<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-135785 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/articles-img.sftcdn.net\/sft\/articles\/auto-mapping-folder\/sites\/3\/2021\/04\/Facebook_addict_uwwbcg.jpg\" alt=\"Facebook addict\" width=\"700\" height=\"467\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What is it you hope to gain from opening social media? Uncovering the \u201cwhy\u201d behind your bad habit does require some introspection.<\/p>\n<p>You might not have a good reason for your endless scrolling. If that\u2019s the case, take a closer look at your motive. Do you hit the &#8216;gram when you\u2019re stressed or overwhelmed? Or, is it when you\u2019re trying to put off a project you don\u2019t want to start?<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps, you\u2019re <strong>seeking connections with the outside world<\/strong> or accessing new information.<\/p>\n<p>In any case, we tend to lean on social media to fill a void. Psychology Today describes this endless scroll as this <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/brain-wise\/201802\/the-dopamine-seeking-reward-loop\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&#8220;wanting activity.&#8221;<\/a> Meaning, we tend to <strong>keep looking at our feeds because we&#8217;re anticipating some reward.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s also a lot easier to <strong>veg out in front of your feed<\/strong> than picking up a book or phoning a friend. This just adds to the temptation.<\/p>\n<div class=\"sc-card-starred-link\">\r\n  <div class=\"sc-card-starred-link__body\">\r\n    <div class=\"sc-card-starred-link__row clearfix\">\r\n      <div class=\"sc-card-starred-link__col-logo\">\r\n        <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"sc-card-starred-link__img\" src=\"https:\/\/articles-img.sftcdn.net\/sft\/articles\/auto-mapping-folder\/sites\/3\/2019\/02\/sad-depressed-192.jpg\" width=\"100px\" height=\"100px\">\r\n      <\/div>\r\n      <div class=\"sc-card-starred-link__col-title\">\r\n        <p class=\"sc-card-starred-link__title\">Social media adds 24\/7 emotional burdens<\/p>\r\n        <a class=\"sc-card-starred-link__button\" href=\"https:\/\/en.softonic.com\/articles\/emotional-labor-social-media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer sponsored\">Read Now \u25ba<\/a>\r\n      <\/div>\r\n    <\/div>\r\n    <a class=\"sc-card-starred-link__link\" href=\"https:\/\/en.softonic.com\/articles\/emotional-labor-social-media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer sponsored\"><\/a>\r\n  <\/div>\r\n<\/div>\n<h3>Reset<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-135787\" src=\"https:\/\/articles-img.sftcdn.net\/sft\/articles\/auto-mapping-folder\/sites\/3\/2021\/04\/Reset_your_life_ovmjct.jpg\" alt=\"Going on a hike\" width=\"700\" height=\"467\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One way to fight social media addiction is by<strong> taking a day off<\/strong>. Consider <strong>taking a day each week where you avoid using the phone or your computer.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This gives you some space to schedule some in-person social time. Do some analog reading, or you know, <strong>go outside.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That said, a full day of no socializing might add to your anxiety for a lot of people. If that&#8217;s you, aim for a couple of hours at a time.<\/p>\n<h2>Set &#8216;micro-boundaries&#8217;<\/h2>\n<p>Micro-boundaries is a concept developed by University College London researchers.\u00a0It refers to a handful of ways to <a href=\"https:\/\/digitalboundariesresearch.files.wordpress.com\/2017\/02\/microboundary-strategies-for-work-life-balance.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">set distance between you and your bad social media habits.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The researchers say there are four types of micro-boundaries.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Digital:<\/strong> Separating accounts or using apps that block out certain websites<\/li>\n<li><strong>Physical:<\/strong> Choosing to leave a device at home or keeping it in a drawer at work<\/li>\n<li><strong>Social:<\/strong> Turning your phone on airplane mode or do-not-disturb during social situations<\/li>\n<li><strong>Temporal:<\/strong> Turning alerts off or setting the phone to do-not-disturb for specific hours<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The UCL paper does acknowledge that you may need to<strong> let others know about these digital boundaries.<\/strong> If you&#8217;re a quick responder, then you might need to give people a heads-up.<\/p>\n<h3>Focus on what you can add to your life<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-135790\" src=\"https:\/\/articles-img.sftcdn.net\/sft\/articles\/auto-mapping-folder\/sites\/3\/2021\/04\/Self-care_qajysl.jpg\" alt=\"Woman meditating\" width=\"700\" height=\"467\" \/>Like going on a diet, prohibiting the use of social media <strong>isn\u2019t sustainable for the long-term<\/strong>. Instead, you should try setting achievable goals. Habit formation depends on <strong>training the brain to get that reward satisfaction from a healthier source.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Plan a cell phone-free dinner once a week, get into hiking, biking, or exploring your neighborhood.<\/p>\n<div class=\"sc-card-starred-link\">\r\n  <div class=\"sc-card-starred-link__body\">\r\n    <div class=\"sc-card-starred-link__row clearfix\">\r\n      <div class=\"sc-card-starred-link__col-logo\">\r\n        <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"sc-card-starred-link__img\" src=\"https:\/\/articles-img.sftcdn.net\/sft\/articles\/auto-mapping-folder\/sites\/3\/2019\/02\/quitting-smoking-cigarette-192.jpg\" width=\"100px\" height=\"100px\">\r\n      <\/div>\r\n      <div class=\"sc-card-starred-link__col-title\">\r\n        <p class=\"sc-card-starred-link__title\">How to break a bad habit<\/p>\r\n        <a class=\"sc-card-starred-link__button\" href=\"https:\/\/en.softonic.com\/articles\/how-to-break-habits\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer sponsored\">Read Now \u25ba<\/a>\r\n      <\/div>\r\n    <\/div>\r\n    <a class=\"sc-card-starred-link__link\" href=\"https:\/\/en.softonic.com\/articles\/how-to-break-habits\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer sponsored\"><\/a>\r\n  <\/div>\r\n<\/div>\n<h2>Disable your alerts<\/h2>\n<p>Alerts play into our brain\u2019s reward center, providing <strong>a rush of dopamine<\/strong> when we hear those familiar sounds.<\/p>\n<p>According to Harvard researchers, Instagram likes, and text messages activate the <a href=\"http:\/\/sitn.hms.harvard.edu\/flash\/2018\/dopamine-smartphones-battle-time\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">same release of dopamine you&#8217;d receive from completing a &#8220;successful social interaction<\/a>.&#8221; The article also notes that dopamine paths are often dysfunctional in people will any type of addiction, be it substance abuse, gambling, or Facebook.<\/p>\n<p>The thing about disabling notifications is, you still have access to everything you want from your phone\/computer. However, it provides a level of separation between you and your apps.<\/p>\n<h2>Wrapping up<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-135791\" src=\"https:\/\/articles-img.sftcdn.net\/sft\/articles\/auto-mapping-folder\/sites\/3\/2021\/04\/Women_socializing_dx7ngq.jpg\" alt=\"Women socializing \" width=\"700\" height=\"467\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Most of the notifications you receive don&#8217;t contain critical time-sensitive information. But for a lot of people, opting out of push notifications can present interpersonal challenges. Your mom or your partner might get annoyed when you don&#8217;t respond ASAP.<\/p>\n<p>This study, aptly named The Do Not Disturb Challenge had interesting results. They found that while participants felt more productive after turning off their notifications,<a href=\"https:\/\/pielot.org\/pubs\/PielotRello2017-MHCI-DoNotDisturb.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> they also felt anxious about not being as responsive as expected.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>So, again, success may depend on convincing your colleagues and text-happy friends to take a more moderate approach to social media.<\/p>\n<div class=\"sc-related-articles-white\">\r\n<p class=\"sc-related-articles-white__title\">More about Mental Health<\/p>\r\n  <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__row\">\r\n    <a title=\"Social media worse for mental health than we thought \u25ba\" href=\"https:\/\/en.softonic.com\/articles\/social-media-worse-for-mental-health-than-we-thought\">\r\n    <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__article\">\r\n      <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__image\">\r\n        <div style=\"background-image:url(https:\/\/articles-img.sftcdn.net\/sft\/articles\/auto-mapping-folder\/sites\/3\/2018\/11\/phone-social-media-depression-192.jpg)\"><\/div>\r\n      <\/div>\r\n      <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__text\">\r\n        <p>Social media worse for mental health than we thought \u25ba<\/p>\r\n      <\/div>\r\n    <\/div>\r\n    <\/a>\r\n    <a title=\"Social media adds 24\/7 emotional burdens \u25ba\" href=\"https:\/\/en.softonic.com\/articles\/emotional-labor-social-media\">\r\n    <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__article\">\r\n      <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__image\">\r\n        <div style=\"background-image:url(https:\/\/articles-img.sftcdn.net\/sft\/articles\/auto-mapping-folder\/sites\/3\/2019\/02\/sad-depressed-192.jpg)\"><\/div>\r\n      <\/div>\r\n      <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__text\">\r\n        <p>Social media adds 24\/7 emotional burdens \u25ba<\/p>\r\n      <\/div>\r\n    <\/div>\r\n    <\/a>\r\n  <\/div>\r\n  <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__row\">\r\n    <a title=\"Instagram wrestles with mental health concerns \u25ba\" href=\"https:\/\/en.softonic.com\/articles\/instagram-mental-health\">\r\n    <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__article\">\r\n      <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__image\">\r\n        <div style=\"background-image:url(https:\/\/articles-img.sftcdn.net\/sft\/articles\/auto-mapping-folder\/sites\/3\/2019\/03\/sad-phone-depression-192.jpg)\"><\/div>\r\n      <\/div>\r\n      <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__text\">\r\n        <p>Instagram wrestles with mental health concerns \u25ba<\/p>\r\n      <\/div>\r\n    <\/div>\r\n    <\/a>\r\n    <a title=\"Top 7 mental health YouTubers \u25ba\" href=\"https:\/\/en.softonic.com\/articles\/best-youtube-channels-mental-health\">\r\n    <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__article\">\r\n      <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__image\">\r\n        <div style=\"background-image:url(https:\/\/articles-img.sftcdn.net\/sft\/articles\/auto-mapping-folder\/sites\/3\/2019\/03\/mental-health-192.jpg)\"><\/div>\r\n      <\/div>\r\n      <div class=\"sc-related-articles-white__text\">\r\n        <p>Top 7 mental health YouTubers \u25ba<\/p>\r\n      <\/div>\r\n    <\/div>\r\n    <\/a>\r\n  <\/div>\r\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you find yourself reaching for your phone to check apps like Facebook? 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