{"id":134252,"date":"2019-04-18T17:26:33","date_gmt":"2019-04-18T17:26:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sftarticles.wpenginepowered.com\/en\/?p=134252"},"modified":"2025-07-01T22:04:56","modified_gmt":"2025-07-02T05:04:56","slug":"turn-off-read-receipts-facebook-messenger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cms-articles.softonic.io\/en\/turn-off-read-receipts-facebook-messenger\/","title":{"rendered":"How to turn off read receipts in Facebook Messenger"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Read receipts aren\u2019t exactly popular.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re a great way to stir up a little drama among friends. They can also generate a ton of anxiety when you\u2019re trying to figure out if that new guy you\u2019ve been dating is serious or not.<\/p>\n

Nothing is worse than knowing someone read your message and just didn\u2019t respond.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s literally no benefit to this FB-sanctioned stalking tool. It’s just an added pressure designed, in Facebook terms, to add a conversational cadence to our online chat.<\/p>\n

So, can you turn off Messenger\u2019s read receipts?<\/strong><\/p>\n

The short answer is, no. Facebook doesn\u2019t make it easy by allowing you to turn this setting off through your account.<\/p>\n

That said, you do have some options.<\/p>\n

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How do you read a Facebook message without the sender knowing?<\/h2>\n

Facebook Messenger relies on a system of circles<\/strong> to show the status of each message you send. You\u2019re probably familiar with the setup, but it looks like this:<\/p>\n

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We all know it\u2019s a pain when you get a message, but don\u2019t want to respond immediately. You could ignore the message, but, come on, that\u2019s not entirely realistic.<\/p>\n

There are a few workarounds to use here:<\/p>\n

Turn on the airplane mode<\/h3>\n

One of the easiest ways to check your messages incognito is to prevent the internet from reaching your app.<\/p>\n

Turn your phone on airplane mode<\/strong>, then open your app and read your messages.<\/p>\n

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Use the notifications screen<\/h3>\n

The other quick fix? Not opening the app at all<\/strong>. Instead, view your messages through your phone\u2019s notification screen to avoid detection.<\/p>\n

Just be careful you don’t accidentally open the app<\/strong>. This workaround is best used to quickly check if any notifications demand an immediate response.<\/p>\n

Embrace the extensions<\/h3>\n

As with the mobile app, Facebook doesn\u2019t provide an easy way to hide from your friends and family.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Chrome has a workaround, aptly named, Unseen<\/a>, that you can add to your browser. You can start reading messages without feeling like you\u2019re being watched.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Google<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a Firefox fan, Message Seen Disable<\/a> does the same thing.<\/p>\n

Both browser extensions allow you to open the app and read your messages. However,\u00a0that little ball with your profile picture won\u2019t drop unless you turn off the extension.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Also, both apps are free and require no actual tech savvy. If read receipts are the bane of your existence, this is your best option.<\/p>\n

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Read receipt drama is real\u00a0<\/em>\u2014 science confirms<\/h2>\n

For a deep dive into this subject matter, we recommend checking out an episode of the “Why\u2019d You Push That Button” podcast. They interview researcher Lujayn Alhddad<\/a>\u00a0who literally wrote a paper on the topic<\/a>.<\/p>\n

The paper looks at the difference between how people feel about read receipts depending on whether they’re the sender or the recipient. Unsurprisingly, most people wanted to see when someone got their message<\/strong>\u00a0but didn’t like the idea that someone might be tracking their behavior.<\/p>\n

Alhddad brings up the real issue of social pressure<\/strong> associated with read receipts.<\/p>\n

She says they serve as a reminder that we “need” to respond immediately. Otherwise, the sender will assume the recipient is not interested in what they have to say.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Another expert,\u00a0Dr. Tony D. Sampson, of the University of East London has another thought. He says that apps like Facebook, iMessage, and WhatsApp are designed to “trigger negative emotions linked to compulsive behavior.”<\/a><\/p>\n

This, admittedly, sounds troubling. Sampson says that unhealthy habits like compulsively checking read receipt time stamps keep us tuned in. This means we’re continuing to supply platforms with our data.<\/p>\n

Next time you leave someone on “read,” give a thought to their mental state.<\/p>\n

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